Do good girls find, like little Red Riding Hood, that to their great surprise it's not grandmother in the bed? Or do good girls dance, like Beauty, with the wild, wonderful Beast? Do good girls desire?
Do we as grown women allow ourselves the freedom to desire? A desire not defined by male fantasies or for male fulfillment, but a desire that is ours - a unique expression of our individual imagination and female sensuality.
It's difficult to buck convention and resist passivity. It's difficult to break the rules and act authentically, apart from stereotypes of sexy seductivity. But shall we try? Shall we as women now dare to disobey, and desire truly, fully, each in our own way?
Let's charm...not with the goal of getting, but for the pure delight of giving. Let's flirt...not as a way of tempting, but for the fun of interaction and repartee. Let's stimulate...not just his sexuality but his interest and curiosity. Let's fascinate...simply by being ourselves, women with histories and stories to tell (or not).
Let's choose to show our love for life, ourselves, and others. Let's have the courage to desire (and the wisdom to desire well).
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